Just to Get Over Someone

I once asked my Mom when I was in high school "bakit 'di mo makalimutan ang isang tao kahit gusto mo na siyang kalimutan?" She answered, "kasi 'di ka pa nakakahanap ng kapalit." A classmate from high school told me the same, "malilimutan mo lang siya pag nakahanap ka na ng iba". At first I believed them.

Pero sorry to say na di pala dapat ako naniwala, at sa tingin ko halos lahat mag agree agree sa akin for that thinking na finding someone new just to get over someone IS TOTALLY WRONG!!! (huhu sana noon ko pa nalaman na wrong nga wala sana akong nasaktan at nasasaktan) It's love on a rebound! IT'S A FOUL! Hindi ko iniisip kung unfair ba to that someone you want to get over with or not. But don't you find it unfair to the one you are just using so you can get over the other one. At di ka din nagiging t0too sa sarili mo.

So, ano dapat gawin ko? Tinanong ko ang Lolo Abraham ko haha! Ang payo ni Lolo A,,, First, LET GO! Let go of your feelings.(Paano ba y0n?? Mahal ko pa din e) Let go of all the pains and hurt that have been holding you back. ( Until n0w nasasaktan ak0 nagsesel0s parang its killing me s0ftly!!) Let go of all you negative beliefs. Let go of that someone. Then, ACCEPT! Accept that it's not meant to be (maybe for the moment. We'll never know). Accept what happened. Accept that someone's shortcomings and yours as well. Accept changes. (Hindi ko pa din matanggap e marami na kaming pinagdaanan pati sa panaginip ko kasama sya) Lastly, MOVE ON! Don't take control of everything. Try to follow destiny and see where it is going to take you. Meet new friends and be open to all possibilities. Just don't settle right ahead. (Hindi ko alam kung paano sisimulan para syang traffic sa EdSa kase i can't move on eh)...

Im crazy..haha nahingi ak0 ng payo pero di naman mag sink in sa utak ko haha..si puso pa din ang nasusunod. Ganun katindi kalaban ang isip hehe!!